Bakit sila galit sa bading?

depende sa tao bakit sila galit sa bading-ang mga karamihan ng religious people(muslim, christians, jews) galit sa bading dahil sa immorality daw ng homosexuality ayon sa relihiyon nila
-may mga bading na galit sa kapwa bading dahil sa internal homophobia. they hate being gays
-may mga straight males na galit sa bading dahil feeling nila sobrang gwapo KAHIT MGA PANGIT, at akala nila momolestiyahin sila ng LAHAT ng bading
-may mga straight males na galit sa bading dahil akala nila nakakahawa ang pagiging bading. ayaw nilang matawag na bading dahil hindi sila secure sa sexualidad nila.
-may mga babaeng galit sa bading dahil mas babae at attractive pa ang ibang bading sa kanila therefore kaagaw sa mga lalake
-may mga bading na discreet na galit sa effeminate dahil sa tingin nila nakakasira ng image ng mga gays ang effeminate at hindi sila attracted sa anumang feminine(girl or bading)
-may mga effeminate na galit sa discreet dahil sa hindi sila makapglaladlad kahit obvious na gay sila
-generally ang society, galit sa bading dahil sa ang mga bagay na feminine nag dedenote ng weakness. they asociate homosexuality with femininity therfore gays are thought of as weak humans. kaya marami ring sexist sa babae dahil sa perception sa mga bagay na feminine

this reasons falls under the category of ignorance-merong galit sa bading dahil sa masamang karanasan nila sa isang bading. whether business or personal. ignorance
-merong galit sa bading dahil akala nila ang bading ay isang choice. they think it's a vice, gusto mo ng lalaki kaya nagpaka bading when it's the other way around

more reasons-merong galit sa bading because gays looks different than real males. they hate anything that looks different or abnormal. thats why in the philippines we laugh at negros, pandak, ugly, gays?
-merong galit sa bading because they themselves don't want to be discriminated by society. kahit hindi sila galit sa bading, personally, they just think it's cool to hate gays to be a part of a certain group or society who hates gays
-merong galit because it's fun hating other humans. eto yung mga taong walang magawa sa buhay 
-people seek to be comfortable with themselves and their surroundings. Ang first instinct ng tao sa unknown ay either fear or anger. One reason why people don't like gays much because they don't know them well enough to be comfortable with them.
-people most of the time don't know about themselves, nor they bother to get to know themselves. They don't trust what they feel, what they think, what they do, what they say. One proof is the persistence of resentment ... people are scared and confused, and they cannot trust if they don't even trust themselves. This is true for both gays and straight people alike ... that is why there are gays who are bashed and gays who bash.
-sometimes people are not comfortable in being outnumbered ... fight-or-flight thing once again.



Source: G4M thread

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  1. Hey! I lurve gay people. I don't know why, pero promise, gay people are so adorable and sobrang taas ang tingin ko sa mga gay people na kayang magladlad lalo na sa family nila :D Kudos! :)

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  2. Me too! I love gay people! My gay friends tell me I'm so straight I could be gay! LOL. As a woman, I like hanging out with gay guys more often---why? Because they lack the closet bitchiness that most women possess (they flaunt it!) and the chauvinistic how-high-can-you-pee (errr---how do you say pataasan ng ihi in english? LOL) banters.

    Gay guys (not so much on gay girls) are all fun and laughter but contrary to some twisted belief that they do not make loyal friends, they are. In my most grueling and saddest moments, the gay guys have been the ones holding the fort for me. So how can anybody hate them?

    This calls for Homosexuality 101. Say NO to the stereotyping of all gay guys as parloristas. No offense to the parloristas as I don't know where I'd be without them, but not all girlie guys want to set up a beauty parlor, not to mention that not all of them can even decorate well! LOL.

    I remember a friend who sucks (no pun intended) big time at decorating who got so miffed at somebody who said, why can't you decorate well, when you're gay?!

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